Positively Prepared for Down Days
Because the best you can you can do for you is leave bread crumbs to lead you back home to those who love you
People seem to think this can’t happen, however I think they mistake what it takes to be ever after. Presumably that it means some permanence, that they believe must be forever. But the definition of ever on dictionary.com, that grants insight and wisdom. ever adverb at all times; always: an ever-present danger; He is ever…
When one chooses to perceive a comment as “victim blaming” it still begs to question? Can you say it’s ok to treat others as if they are part of the problem if they are truly trying to be better? It’s like those who sit and try and say all women are out to get pregnant…
I did childish things. When I was an adult, i still did childish sh¡t. Seriously, if you expected that to good anywhere else, you are still getting to know me!
So, someone shared about how it’s OK to say black. And I have had several friends try to tell me the same thing . However, I felt it necessary to clarify why I don’t like calling people colors in general: black is what you wear, not what you chose to be. My mother was VERY…
I have been dealing with a lot of stress the last 3 days. I decided that as of yesterday I need to make some changes in my life so that I can accommodate for unexpected surprises like this. While I hope that this is the last time I have a level of chaos comparative to…
I am speaking with him this afternoon. No, it won’t be about the case. It will be about focusing on his health.We ALL make choices, some good, some bad, some life altering.Those who know the situation understand the difficulties I’m going through right now. I’ve cried more tears over that man in the last 24…
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Simple story shared prompted writing something I think everyone can benefit from reading; especially those dealing with this issue. Translation of what I read: My father is an abusive narcissistic who figured out he has an expiration date and wants to make sure he gets that ONE last jab in before he dies or worse…
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One does not have to be anything other than oneself and accept your partner for all their strengths and weaknesses if you love them. Being introduced to the poly lifestyle can be incredibly hard, almost jarring, and difficult to get past the traditional “cheating” perception monogamy portrays it as. But poly lifestyles can be very…
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Why are we in the habit of letting people narrate our stories? So often we let others’ perception of us, our beauty, our ugliness, be believed of others. But to look at ourselves, we see only the flaws, the things we see every day that we disdain. Step back, stand apart from that mirror. View…
