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Reflection of Friends vs Acquaintances

Relationships absolutely need to be two way streets; regardless if it’s amorous, familial, or friendship. HARD STOP. And evaluating those around you and observing if they are lifting you up as you lift them should be a monthly/weekly/daily pprocess. If you surround yourself with good, inspiring, challenging people, you will continue to be your best…
Explaining Alegebra
The way I think about it (using letters for math) is you are starting a warehouse and you need to find out how many (X) shelves of space to fit knowing only 4 items fit every EVERY time on a shelf. So you need to buy shelves to stack on and 36 items to stack,…
How to Make Death Binder – A Gift to Your Loved Ones

What is a Death Binder? A death binder is a place to gather necessary information and documents that detail how we want our wishes carried out, our belongings dispersed, our finances dealt with, etc. Why make a death binder? Reasons include: STEP ONE – Set your Intention Set the intention and ask your self the hard questions about…
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Getting Your Affairs in Order Checklist: Documents to Prepare for the Future

Checklist for getting your affairs in order This list provides common steps to consider when getting your affairs in order. 1. Plan for your estate and finances. Depending on your situation, you may choose to prepare different types of legal documents to outline how your estate and finances will be handled in the future. Common…
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Wedding Officiant Passage

One must remember that entering any agreement that is legally, socially, and eternally binding, one should always do so with the best intentions & love. Life can take us down some challenging paths, the important part is not looking back at where we’ve been, but always be looking forward. While in this moment you may…
Depths of the Wound caused by Racism
The medical racism (blacks/Irish/Indian/x are prone to….) alone creates fatalities. Black women are more likely to die post giving birth. That is a TERRIFYING fact and reason enough that I would have chosen to never have kids if I had more melanin in my skin. It is terrifying how ignorant people are to the full…
Exploit of Time and Half by California-based Companies
This is the math allowed for a salaried non exempt employee of an employer based in California (2017-2019). Personal knowledge as I compared this against my paychecks to create this. (I rounded the taxes to 20% as I live in Texas and we do not have state employment tax) My contract pay, based on the…
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Who were your favorite professors in college?
I think my most life changing influence was Dr. James Robinson because I ended up pursuing my religion degree because of the questions he posed in my “Religions of the World” class: “What do you believe?” Taking that my summer of my Junior year in High school truly sent me down a path of self…
Remembering a good man

In 2010, a dear friend and admirer was dying of stage 4 tongue cancer. He would ultimately die just weeks later. Being he knew I studied the religions of the world as my BA, he asked me: What if he was wrong, what if his faith was wrong and reincarnation wasn’t real. I told him…
Rape Culture Training

A boy pulled up my skirt to look under it in kindergarten/1st grade. Flash forward 20+ years later. Asshole tried to add me on Facebook. Answer was a resounding NO! MY PERSONAL life was no business of his then, and definitely isn’t now. Accidentally seeing is one thing, INTENTIONALLY exposing someone against their will is…